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You Love Me

By Caroline Kepnes

You Love Me by Caroline Kepnes, the third installment in Caroline Kepnes's thrilling You series.


In You Love Me (You #3), Joe Goldberg is back. And he's going to start a family--even if it kills him.

Joe Goldberg is done with cities, done with the muck and the posers, done with Love. Now, he's saying hello to nature, to simple pleasures on a cozy island in the Pacific Northwest. For the first time in a long time, he can just breathe.

He gets a job at the local library--he does know a thing or two about books--and that's where he meets her: Mary Kaye DiMarco. Librarian. Joe won't meddle, he will not obsess. He'll win her the old fashioned way . . . by providing a shoulder to cry on, a helping hand. Over time, they'll both heal their wounds and begin their happily ever after in this sleepy town.

The trouble is . . . Mary Kaye already has a life. She's a mother. She's a friend. She's . . . busy. True love can only triumph if both people are willing to make room for the real thing. Joe cleared his decks. He's ready. And hopefully, with his encouragement and undying support, Mary Kaye will do the right thing and make room for him.

(The Detailed Plot Summary is also available, below)

Detailed Plot Summary

Quick Plot Summary

Note: This is the only the first two paragraphs of the summary. The full plot summary will be available after the book's publication on April 6, 2020.

You Love Me picks up after Joe has been in jail for nine months while being held for trial, and ultimately released, for his crimes. The Quinn family paid his legal fees because Love was pregnant with their son, Forty (named after Love's deceased brother). After his release, they paid him $4 million to walk away from Love and the child (and threatened to kill him otherwise).

Joe is now living on Bainbridge Island and has his eye on his new boss, Mary Kay DiMarco, a librarian at Bainbridge Public Library who has dreams of owning her own bookstore some day. She has a teenaged daughter, Noni. With his new start, Joe is determined to resist his impulses, and he promises himself he will not kill for Mary Kay. Joe and Mary Kay become closer. They finally kiss, but Mary Kay says she just wants to be friends. Still, Joe continues to build up a relationship in his head. Then, one day, he finds out Mary Kay is married.

To be continued...

This is the only the first two paragraphs of the summary. The full plot summary will be available after the book's publication on April 6, 2020.

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Book Review

You Love Me (You #3) by Caroline Kepnes is the third book in the series (and Season 3 of the Netflix show “You” will be adapting this book), and it’s scheduled to be released on April 6th 2021.

It’s also exactly what fans of the series have been hoping for. The charming but delusional Joe Goldberg is back, and he is just as psychotic and Joe Goldberg-y as ever.

As the story opens, Joe’s been transported into the suburbs, living in Bainbridge Island in Washington. His child has been born, and he’s spent the last few months in jail while being held for trial from his crimes. He was released thanks to fancy lawyers paid for by the Quinn family, but they also offered him a non-voluntary payoff (as in, take it or get shot) to stay away from Love and his son.

Joe is determined not to kill anymore (too complicated!), but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have some twisted ideas up his sleeve. With inventive new mind games to play and deranged schemes to enact, Joe still manages to get himself into plenty of trouble, even as he tries to be a “good guy” and act however he thinks “good guys” act (hint: he’s still not a good guy, but he’s certainly entertaining).

Penn Badgley as Joe Goldberg

This time around he’s more into psychological mind games, and Joe’s relationship with his new love interest deals with more “adult” issues (like raising a child or everyday things like who buys trash bags) compared to his previous romances. And let me tell you, I am so here for all it. With a third book, you want it to have the same feel without being a repeat of everything that’s happened before, and I think Caroline Kepnes nailed it by adding just enough new elements to keep things feeling fresh.

I also loved that Kepnes plants subtle hints about her plot twists in the book. Instead of having completely random things occur to shake up the plot, she gives small indications of the nature of her characters if you read carefully. (I hope it’s something that gets reflected in the show. )

I should be clear that this book is about a psycho in a ridiculous story with some other psychos mixed in. It’s nonstop drama and unapologetically twisted. So, there’s a fairly specific audience for this book, but if you’re one of those people, Kepnes seems to know exactly what she’s doing. She keeps a steady hand on her off-the-rails plotline, and she writes it in a way that is exciting and often clever.

There are a few turns of the plot that are overly convenient and some resolutions that aren’t entirely satisfying, but in general it’s a fun ride, in a crazy and unpredictable way.

Read it or Skip It?

You Love Me is full of the twisted thrills and sticky situations that fans of the series have come to delight in. This is one of the easier (and shorter) reviews I’ve written because it’s pretty easy to identify the audience that would enjoy this book. Simply stated:

If you loved the book series or the show, I have fantastic news for you. You Love Me is probably exactly what you are hoping for it to be, and I think you’ll enjoy it. I had plenty of fun reading it. There’s lots of surprises, twists and utterly unhinged Joe-Goldberg-ness in store.

If you weren’t into the previous books and/or didn’t like the show, I have bad news for you. This book is not going to change your mind. You will not like it.

Happy reading!

You Season 3: the Book versus the Show

If you’re following the show, you’ll remember that Season 2 ends with Joe moving out to the suburbs with his equally psychotic girlfriend, Love. He talks about wanting to start a family, etc.

But then he says that maybe it was all in order to meet “you” — and we see that Joe is creepily (of course) watching his neighbor, a woman reading a book with a stack of other library books next to her, from behind his fence while he thinks to himself that he’ll be seeing her “soon”.

While the show is some time away from airing (it’s scheduled to film between November 2020 through April 2021), I’ll be tracking differences between the third season of Netflix’s You and You Love Me (which Season 3 is adapting) over here:

Differences in the Book (You Love Me) vs the Netflix TV Show (You Season 3)

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